They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach; a notion easily believable by every woman who intends to keep her man in the home, rather than have him go out to fend for his meal alone. This is a true expression, but far from the picture it paints to the narrow mind.
A man’s heart is very fickle and sometimes, unforgiving. Now, to get into his heart takes more than just the effort of making him a good meal; a man’s stomach is a common term that could be used to describe all the other means of getting into his heart.
The common saying, “A hungry man is an angry man” could be the most factual expression of how fickle the heart of a man is. To get into a man’s heart doesn’t stop at having a good meal, a man needs to be connected enough for him to surrender his heart to a woman completely and absolutely.
What do men need to satisfy their hunger?
- true love- he needs to always feel safe around his woman;
- partnership- a man prefers to walk hand-in-hand with his woman, rather than having to always walk in front of her. He expects a shared idea, rather than to be the only one with a brain
- attention- yes, even man loves to be cuddled, encouraged, and sometimes, pampered
- care- no man loves to do all the work and come back to meet a war zone after a hard day’s job
- comfort- the worst thing a woman can do to lose her man is, to give him hell, instead of affection
- consideration- the man knows he can’t be right all the time, so he expects a level of consideration, for his woman to see past his mistakes
- sex- now all these talk about emotions, a man also gains good connection from sex! A man would need to connect this way, to stroke his ego a little and have a sense of responsibility towards his woman. Sex is not all bad, but if a man shows his woman so much respect, an open leg will only keep him coming home, rather than to shop for free snacks out there.
- time- a man needs some time to figure things out properly. Choking a man does not show love, it only shows weakness and instability. A woman should be understanding enough to give him some of this, if she needs him to satisfy her demands too.
- a good meal- after all said above, we come right back to the good meal. A man knows the essence of this, is to keep him hooked. If a woman is good at all the other things and manages to fix him up with good meals regularly, darling, you’ve just won yourself his heart for life!
Now, you must understand that a man’s stomach is not just a phase, it is made up of other important components that must be satisfied, alongside his original stomach, in order to create an everlasting space in his fickle heart.