Everyone always wants to be as transparent and truthful as they feel deep inside their hearts; but, with a realization that, it’s not every truth about oneself that should be shared, especially, with the ones we hope to make a lifetime commitment to.
Every new relationship is very vulnerable, and so, many are compelled to tell the whole story about themselves. But, there’s the danger in telling the whole story to another person; most times, they either can’t handle the story/truth, or they may never forget what was told. Many at times have fallen into disappointments for sharing their true stories, with no knowledge of the outcome of that act.
It’s always good to be honest and open to those we hold close to our hearts, but, stories unquestioned or unasked of, must always remain silent within you. Not every ear you speak into is a listening ear, and not every heart is an understanding one. Do not dig your own grave, keep your story to yourself.